Frank Gashumba, on a media show, openly explained his reasons for not wanting to marry, stressing that he believes he has nothing to gain from such a commitment.
He mentioned that marriage often comes with specific daliy expectations, particularly concerning physical intimacy, which he finds draining.
Gashumba strongly admitted that he lacks the energy to meet these bedroom expectations on a daily basis.
In his view, marriage can become an obligation, where a man feels compelled to fulfill a woman’s needs for intimacy at any moment, leading to feelings of overwhelm.
This pressure is something he actively chooses to avoid in his life.
Reflecting on a past relationship with a beautiful woman who had a notably high sex drive, Gashumba recalls nights filled with requests for intimacy.
He remembered being asked for sex at midnight, again at 3 am, and once more at 5 am, which always left him completely exhausted, ultimately affecting his productivity.
While Gashumba acknowledges that everyone faces their own challenges, he believes he ranks among the top ten most stress-free individuals in Uganda.
This sense of peace is something he deeply values and prioritizes.
For him, the pursuit of peace and a focus on contributing positively to the country outweigh the traditional expectations and pressures associated with marriage.